It's one of the worst things about Orthodoxy. If you do anything but toe the party line, the idiots line up to call you "self-hating."
Take this post for an example. I didn't side with anyone, never expressed any judgement whatsoever, in fact, but because I didn't recommend the electric chair for the tresspassing black kid, and a medal for Zimmerman the Hero, Kishke and the other brain-dead macaroons from Lakewood think I'm Adolph Hitler incarnate.
Makes me want to hurl.