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Wednesday, April 24, 2013

AP Mad Libs

A GUEST POST BY HENOCH

CAMBRIDGE, Mass. (Brooklyn, NY) (AP) -- When preachers (the Rabbi) told congregants at a mosque (shul) in November that it was appropriate for Muslims (Jews) to celebrate U.S. holidays such as the Fourth of July and Thanksgiving (and Israeli holidays such as Yom Hashoah and Yom Haatzmaut), a man who would later be a suspect in last week's the Boston Marathon bombing stood up to argue, the mosque (shul) said.

The Islamic Society of Boston Cultural Center (shul) on Monday told about that outburst by Tamerlan Tsarnaev (Yankel S.)and provided more details on a second one two months later that the group had previously described.
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Both mosque (shul) incidents happened after the older brother returned from a months-long trip to Russia (yeshiva) last year. An aunt there said he was studying Islam (Torah) but struggled to fit in.

The troublesome behavior first came in November, just before Thanksgiving, the mosque (shul) said. At a weekly prayer (shacharis), a preacher (the rabbi) gave a sermon saying it was appropriate for Muslims (Jews) to celebrate American (and Israeli) holidays. Tamerlan Tsarnaev (Yankel) stood up and argued that "celebration of any holiday was not allowed in the faith."

The preacher (rabbi) met with Tsarnaev (Yankel) and discussed the issue after the service.

In January, the mosque shul said Tsarnaev (Yankel) had a similar outburst.

This time, the sermon included praise for Martin Luther King Jr., and this time Tsarnaev (Yankel) shouted, calling the preacher (Rabbi) a "non-believer" (kofer) and "hypocrite" who was "contaminating people's minds." Congregants shouted back at him, telling him to leave, and he did.

Original article from the AP: Here


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Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Great Idea

A Guest Post By E. Fink

Here in Los Angeles we are inundated with billboards. No one likes them, but the frum community is especially sensitive to ads that are too explicit or even too suggestive for our tastes.

In the past, when a particularly nefarious billboard was put up in the frum neighborhoods, the community would organize petitions and stage mass call-ins to have the billboards changed. I wrote about it on this blog last year: Offensive Billboards

Recently, Baron Herzog has started a campaign on some Los Angeles billboards. I understand that they have a similar campaign in New York. While I find the ads cringeworthy for the most part, it spawned an idea in my head.

The frum community should buy all the ad space in the frum neighborhood and use the space to post (clean) ads for frum businesses and events! Instead of trying to regulate the ads with political or social pressure, we should just use the billboards for ourselves. This would avoid the discomfort that some may have with imposing our morals on the community. It's the ultimate Capitalist solution!

Here's the latest Baron Herzog billboard:


Monday, March 18, 2013

YU Torah Editorializes the Title of a Shiur

A Guest Post By E. Fink

On Friday, Rabbi Efrem Goldberg posted his Chumash class on YUTorah.org. He tweeted the link with its title. He called the class "A Rabbi (talmid chacham) who lacks common sense is worse than a carcass". The tweet is here for your reference:
If you click the link today, it will take you to the same class, however now it sports a brand new title. The shiur is now called "Common Courtesy with Common Sense". The URL still has the old branding, or at least part of it. As you can see here:

<http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/791650/Rabbi%20Efrem%20Goldberg/Vayikra:%20Don%27t%20Be%20a%20Talmid%20Chacham%20Who%20Lacks%20Common%20Sense#>.

Curious. I wonder if anything might have happened over the weekend that influenced the change in title? Hmm...

HT: Withheld

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Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Frum Organizations Probably Should Not Be Cashing in on Small Business Saturday

A Guest Post by E. Fink

Cross-posted from my home blog: Finkorswim.com

On Saturday, American Express sponsored Small Business Saturday (SBS). To help promote small businesses (and their brand) AMEX offered a $25 credit to anyone who used a registered AMEX card at a participating small business.

Many schools and charity organizations urged their supporters to register and donate $25 using their AMEX. This would give the institution a $25 (minus fees) donation and the donor would recoup the $25 from AMEX. So in essence it was a free $25 for the institution. Sounds like a win / win.

On its face, the participation of charities and religious institutions seems like it could be an issue. The concept here is to promote small business with purchases. "Spending $25" at a shul or school simply for the sake of a donation is  not within the spirit of the promotion. But reasonable people could argue this point.

The problem is that SBS has rules.

Thursday, August 09, 2012

What To Do If You Got One of Those El Al Tickets

A Guest Post By E. Fink

Also posted on my home blog: Finkorswim.com

Unless you live under a rock, you know that El Al made a big mistake and allowed people to buy round trip tickets to Tel Aviv from New York for under $400. This was not a promotion or a sale. It was a mistake.

When the mistake was corrected the fares disappeared.

El Al is honoring the tickets.

If you scored some of these tickets what is the proper thing to do?

In Moment Magazine, the Ethicist Emeritus, Randy Cohen, weighs in and says:

Tuesday, May 08, 2012

In Favor of Lag B'Omer Trips

A Guest Post By E. Fink

Over on the Matzav, a letter that was posted before Lag B'Omer last year has been reposted without any mention that it is a rerun. Basic honesty and decency aside, they must have thought no one would realize. You can't fool me. I read and commented on this letter last year. I know this because I read the Matzav like Jon Stewart watches Fox News.

When they posted it last year I left some comments under my Matzav / VIN anono-name and I thought the letter writer had been eviscerated enough that Matzav would not dare publish the same letter again. I was wrong. So this time I am going all out. Here is a more snarky and detailed reply to the moron of the week. My commentary is in parenthesis.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Eggs at the Seder

A Guest Post by E. Fink

Many Seders serve eggs at the start of Shulchan Orech. Reasons and lessons of this custom are varied and numerous. There is no old, primary source for the custom, as far as I know.

In last Wednesday's NY Times Dining section there was an article about a new trend of urbanites owning chickens and using the eggs. Towards the end of the article was this gem:
In the last month, backyard chickens across the country have begun laying again. Left to their own rhythms, hens slow down or stop laying eggs altogether in the winter, because their reproductive cycle is linked to daylight. For centuries, the simultaneous return of eggs and the sun was seen as a quasi-magical coincidence; it is no wonder eggs are central to ancient spring celebrations like Easter, Passover and Nowruz, the Persian New Year, which begins on the spring equinox.
Makes sense to me.

As a particularly meaningful way of celebrating the return of the eggs, they were incorporated into the Seder. It's a classic example of adding religious meaning to something that was done by all.

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Thursday, March 29, 2012

Peek-a-Shul! Pacific Jewish Center on Fox (sort of)

A Guest Post By E. Fink

Originally posted on my home blog: Finkorswim.com


Several people who watch the Fox Television show New Girl let me know that our shul was in the frame for a few seconds. Very cool. Here is your proof!

Venice Beach was the key prop in a scene where one character (Jess) tries to help another character (Schmidt) relax. There is no where in the world to find more relaxed people than Venice Beach. It's a great place to let go of your troubles. Although, the drum circle people who are dancing in the show bear little resemblance to the actual drum circle people. Clearly, casting preferred to portray them as a group of  people with above average looks who don't need a shower. This is not entirely accurate.

If you need a Shabbos of relaxation come to see us on Venice Beach.

(Watch the episode here: Hulu)



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Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Are These Photos of the Same Religion?

A Guest Post by E. Fink

Last week the Jewish world mourned the loss of the Vizhnitz Rebbe, Rabbi Moshe Yehoshua Hager. Today, the Jewish world mourned the loss of the Rosh Yeshiva of Torah Ohr, Rabbi Chaim Pinchus Scheinberg.

There is an ancient Jewish custom not to leave the body unattended between the death and the funeral. Have a look at how two different groups observe this particular custom:


vs.


Fascinating. Isn't it?

HT: Laya120




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  • Wednesday, March 14, 2012

    Tznius Inflation

    A Guest Post by E. Fink

    Crossposted from my home blog: Finkorswim.com

    I read this excellent article on Tablet today. It's a great article for a lot of reasons. For me, the best part of the article is that I agree with almost every word! (Half kidding.) For the purposes of this post I will assume you have also read the article. Click here: Tablet Magazine, read the article and come back when you are done.

    The writer, a young woman studying at Stern College, comes from a more insular background than the Yeshiva University environment she now associates with. Her accounts of life in the more insular community are accurate and I myself have experienced many of the same sentiments first hand. I have heard of almost all the rest of them second hand.

    Wednesday, March 07, 2012

    Shtick Yeshivish People Say at Shiva

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    Here's something to help the fast go faster.

    A friend of mine wrote the script, his friends acted it out. It's pretty funny. Laugh out loud funny in a few spots. Enjoy.



    Tuesday, February 14, 2012

    Adventures in The Code of Hammurabi

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    Cross-posted from my home blog: Finkorswim.com

    As a general rule, orthodox Jewish rabbis and teachers pretend that Bible Criticism does not exist. This is not necessarily a conscious choice, rather it was a choice made on their behalf over a century ago. The ugly result of this decision is that when the orthodox Jew encounters BibCrit he is left without any tools or foreknowledge to handle the issues and in a sense one can be blindsided by basic observations made in BibCrit. This, in turn, can take a disastrous toll on one's beliefs in Torah and God.

    One of the few exceptions to this rule in Rabbi J.H. Hertz. In his Chumash, R' Hertz has several essays that, at least on a basic level, deal with some of the challenges raised by BibCrit. Some of the BibCrit he cites is outdated and some of his approach is also outdated. But it is still worth understanding and appreciating his efforts.

    One major BibCrit challenge surrounds this week's parsha, Mishpatim. In the Parsha, the Jewish people are taught the basic outline of their Civil Code. The parsha discusses property, chattel, damages, loans, and other seemingly non-religious laws. The issue is that there is an earlier code that precedes this Mosaic code of Parshas Mishpatim, The Code of Hammurabi.

    Why [Anonymous] Will Be Skipping the Siyum HaShas

    A Guest Post By ANONYMOUS:

    With great fanfare and aggressive advertising, the Agudah has recently begun the process of making seats to this summer's siyum hashas at Metlife stadium available. Selling out that ennormous venue would be a monumental feat. After much thought, however, I decided that I won't be among those in attendance at what promises to be a memorable event. This will be the first siyum I will miss since I was old enough to appreciate what the event represents. If I had to explain why, I'd do so with 6 words: "the previous one and the convention."

    Seven years ago, I headed to Madison Square Garden just as I had done twice before in the previous 15 years, to bask on the glory of Torah and those who learn it with great commitment and sacrifice. I was excited as I recalled feeling like I had tasted gan eden on my previous trips and assumed this time would be no different. But different it was.

    The last siyum brought us a collection of uninspiring speeches from people who had no business speaking at a celebration of the daf hayomi. Roshei Yeshiva, notorious for using the term "daf yomi" as an insult (anyone that ever learned in yeshiva knows exactly what I mean) were honored with addressing the very people they spend years degrading. One such individual launched into what seemed like a never-ending pilpul. Another yeshiva leader went on a tirade against Rabbi Slifkin, calling him and those who supported him "midgets". Word quickly spread that he travelled to Philadelphia the following day to ask mechilla from Reb Shmuel Kaminetzky, who had written a haskama for one of the Slifkin books. Whatever you may think of the Slifkin controversy, the siyum hashas was not the place to address it.

    Political considerations and concern for fragile egos led Agudah to put too many speakers on the program, very few of whom had any connection to the daf. The program was too long, uninspiring and, frankly, flat out offensive. Other than a magestic performance by Chazzan Helfgott, the evening was a disappointment beyond words. When it finally and mercifully ended well into the night, I left the arena with feelings of anger. I felt as if someone had deprived me of the inspiration I came eagerly anticipating.

    Sadly, I have no reason to believe this siyum will be any better than the previous one was. In the seven years since the previous siyum, egos have not shrunk, politics have not given way to yiras shamayim, and respect for ballabatim and lomdei daf yomi has not exactly increased within the yeshiva world. As the Agudah convention demonstrated, the leaders of the yeshiva world who share Agudah's pholosophy have only become emboldened in their fight against the outside world (you know, the one we all live in) and sharper in their personal attacks against people - and gadgets - they deem outside of their worldview. The speeches were angry, personal (Slifkin again) and at times flat out bizarre (remember the Internet cafe idea?). I fear that the siyum will be the embarrassing spectacle that the convention was and nothing has been said or done to indicate otherwise.

    I wish Agudah would release the program for the siyum in advance of (or concurrent with) ticket sales, like it does with the convention. If I knew who the scheduled speakers were and what topics they will be asked to address, I could better evaluate whether it appeals to me. But at this stage, given the recent convention and the regrettable debacle of the previous siyum, I can't afford to take my chances.

    At the last siyum, I walked in looking to be inspired and walked out feeling cheated and insulted. I won't risk that happening again.




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  • Sunday, January 15, 2012

    Tropper Makes a Cameo in Sotah

    A Guest Post by E. Fink

    Remember Tropper? The rabbi who was trading conversions for "that which shall not be named"? In what might be the most ironic thing ever, he also wrote a book on the Laws of Yichud. Haha. Chortle. Chortle. We laughed about this way back when...

    Anyway, I was reading Naomi Ragen's book, Sotah and I chanced upon this gem. A charedi man is attempting to seduce a charedi woman. They are both from Meah Shearim. He is "helping her" with the books in her mother's wool store. She is suspicious and mindful of the yichud issue so she asks him if they should leave the door open. He replies with some fancy pants piskei halacha that hold merely leaving the door unlocked in sufficient. The last source he quotes is Tropper.

    Needless to say, things escalate and eventually more than the laws of yichud are violated

    I actually laughed out loud when I read that. Sotah was written 18 years prior to Tropper's scandal. How appropriate was it for Mrs. Ragen to use his book as a fake "heter" for a charedi man to seduce a charedi woman?! Uncanny!

    In another era, we would have called Mrs. Ragen a prophetess. Or maybe she just has ruach hakodesh...

    Friday, January 06, 2012

    Pritzus in Monsey

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    An intrepid reader sent in this horrible violation of tznius rules at Rockland Kosher in Monsey. This is the same place with a sign prohibiting anyone from shopping if they are not wearing socks.

    It seems that either the censor forgot to cover this pornographic display of female anatomy or a lustful man was unable to control himself and ripped off the tznius coverup in testosterone fueled curiosity.


    I hope this situation is corrected as soon as possible.

    HT and Photo Credit: Motti Yaniv

    Wednesday, January 04, 2012

    Women Cannot Be Rabbis But They Can Be Kabbalists

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    Shmarya is reporting that a certain Rebbetzin Aidel Miller has an approbation from great rabbis and is removing Ayin Hara from anyone who pays the requisite fee. It seems that Rebbetzin Miller is well versed is some fancy-pants segulos and is able to help with shiduchim and child bearing. She also is an expert in helping you find happiness, specifically through laughter. To this end she uses Omega-3 supplements. She is treating women with something she calls "Laughter Therapy".

    The whole thing reeks of snake oil. But that is not my beef. I have come to terms with the naiveté of orthodox Jews.

    The fascinating thing to me, is that I thought that only men could be mekubalim. If it is true that women can be mekubalim, why can't they be talmidos chachamos too? Rebbetzin Miller is a feminist!

    So I am conflicted. Should I be championing Rebbetzin Miller as a trailblazer of female religious leadership? Or disappointed that the best we can do for women is get them to be kabbalist saleswomen.

    One last note. One theory regarding the proliferation of women possessed by demons or dybbuks is that women were unable to sermonize and rebuke their co-religionists. However, under the spell of a spirit they were not the one speaking, they were merely a conduit for the spirit. This gave them an outlet for inspiring the public. Women would encourage the belief that they were possessed simply to have a voice.

    Could we be seeing the same phenomenon today? Perhaps.

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  • Thursday, December 22, 2011

    OU and Agudah Unite Against Contraceptives

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    This nugget comes courtesy of R' Josh Yuter

    From what I can gather (I'm no expert), the government requires employers to provide insurance to their employees that provides them with access to contraceptives. Some religious groups find this incredibly offensive.

    Most people just assume that those who find this offensive are Catholics. They think: "Those stodgy old-school Catholics are the last people on earth who completely reject contraceptives." But no, a letter signed by a large number of Protestant, Evangelical and other denominations of Christians stands tall with Catholics.

    The money quote:
    We believe that the Federal government is obligated by the First Amendment to accommodate the religious convictions of faith-based organizations of all kinds, Catholic and non-Catholic. We respectfully ask that your administration, should it maintain the current contraceptives mandate, devise an exemption for religious employers that accurately defines such employers and exempts them from being required to offer to their employees (and students, if they are among America’s many religious colleges and universities) health services to which they have deep religious objections.
    Along for the ride are the OU and Agudah.

    Monday, December 19, 2011

    Excellent Article in Azure

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    On Cross-Currents, Rabbi Adlerstein linked to an amazing article by Dr. Moshe Koppel. I read the article and was blown away. I believe many of the wise readers of this blog will find it equally compelling.

    The article has many take-away points and many of those points echo some of the ideas DovBear has been publicizing for years. In some ways, the article explains everything happening in orthodox Judaism today. I cannot over-emphasize how much I enjoyed the article.


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    Tuesday, November 29, 2011

    A Touching Moment In Waterbury

    A Guest Post By E. Fink

    The Yeshiva High School in Waterbury CT suffered a double tragedy a few weeks ago when two young men were killed in a car crash. The yeshiva fields a basketball team that competes with other local (non-Jewish) high schools. I think it's great that the boys can play competitively against peers from other walks of life. It's a great outlet and a great opportunity to learn about interacting with other groups, religions and faiths.